Welcome to After the Aisle!


Weddings are such joyous occasions, filled with hope, good wishes from friends, and a commitment to love each other for the rest of your lives. But over time, romance can dwindle to a flickering ember. The connection you once felt with your spouse may have drifted out to sea like an untethered lifeboat. Or you may find yourself wishing that you could communicate better with your partner. If so, be encouraged.

After the Aisle is designed to help the “maritally challenged” find the help they need for where they are hurting most — their relationship. On this blog, you will find posts from a marriage therapist who has over 20 years of experience and an opportunity to engage in online therapy, if desired. Some of what I will be writing comes from lessons that I have learned the hard way as a husband. Some will come from professional experience. And some will come from the principles of my Christian faith. It is my hope that what you read here will be both enlightening and helpful as you continue your journey after the aisle.

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