Arguing, Communication, Conflict, love, Marriage, relationship

13 Ways To Guarantee Your Spouse Doesn’t Give a Crap About the Marriage

It was a beautiful day when you got married. The sun shone as bright as your future and hope seemed to pour from every smiling face that congratulated you. And not because of the open bar. Your friends and family were genuinely happy for you. You were genuinely happy for you. But somewhere along the way that raging bonfire of passion…

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Affairs, Arguing, Communication, Conflict, Marriage

13 Ways to Stay Together During Life’s Worst Hurricanes

It’s 2 a.m. and you can still hear the rain slapping against the window. The wind howls and the beams creak as they arm wrestle for superiority of this small corner of the world. Maybe you should have gotten out of town. But you never imagined it would be this bad. You walk over to the window and pull the…

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Arguing, Conflict, Marriage, Resolution, Uncategorized

How to Argue Without Getting Stupid

If you are in any type of relationship and you have found yourself getting into stupid arguments over stupid things, then you have probably sought out advice in some form (books, friends, magazine articles, pastors, counselors, etc) to help you with this issue. The problem with most advice, though, is that it primarily focuses on what NOT to do. Those…

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Arguing, Communication, Conflict, Marriage, Uncategorized

WARNING: Communication May Not Be Your Problem

I’ve been doing this job since 1996 and if there is one thing that I’ve learned about couples it is that the vast majority of them (close to 98% in my estimate) believe that they suck at communicating. And they do. The problem, though, is that despite every conversation teetering towards oblivion… communication is the last thing they need to…

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